The Lie That’s a Truth That’s a Lie

Now that we have some introduction to the bizarre dynamic of refusing to Receive, let’s look at our next Kissing Consciousness concept: The Lie That’s a Truth That’s a Lie.

Here’s how it works (and remember, this always happens, and only happens, under the influence of self-judgement):

1. It’s a lie that you want the thing that you’re trying to achieve, because Subconsciously you know you’re not allowed it. So you’re pretending to be going after it, but ‘secretly’, unwittingly, making sure you don’t allow yourself to Receive it, because the last time you checked that was not safe.
2. But it’s true that actually you do want the thing. You certainly have a compelling feel for wanting it; it’s just that self-judgement which is stopping you from Receiving it.
3. But you are under the influence of self-judgement, so how can you know what you will want once the self-judgement is removed and your True Self is revealed? The only way to know is to remove the self-judgement and then find out what your desire is.

Let’s say you’re attempting to be a television presenter, but you have a ‘No’ Permission around being allowed to be a success at it.

1. You sabotage your efforts to be good at it (the lie – that you want it).
2. But even so you feel deep down underneath that you want to be good at it (that’s a truth – that you want it).
3. But until you release the self-judgement you can’t be sure whether you will still want to be a television presenter after it has cleared. (So the lie is, again, that you want it … because you simply don’t know).

So trying to force the thing we want into existence is futile, and the smart (Conscious) way to address the Frustration is to seek to release the Fear Consciousness. This is addressing the cause, not the symptom. Unconscious people always try to force the thing into existence against their true nature. All we can do is remove the self-judgement and find out what’s really true for us under those circumstances.

Here’s a Specific Binary Table for how people deal with and address self-sabotage: