Dating Coach

The wisest dating coaching on the planet?

I want you to have the best chance possible of realising your ideal relationship. As a Dating Coach I’m here to help you find a happy and successful relationship – whilst enjoying the process of dating and having it be fun.

  1. Find the relationship you want
  2. Enjoy the process

As an Integral Philosopher, world-class personal development author, boundaries and conscious relating expert and Founder of Kissing Consciousness, I’m uniquely placed to help you;

  • Maximize your chances of dating leading to a happy relationship
  • Provide a deeper wisdom and alround appreciation of life to help you
  • Avoid the flaws in (see example)
  • Potentially save both years and thousands of pounds helping you ground your approach to dating and relationship in deeper wisdom

Can a Dating Coach Save You Time and Money?

People like to take a romantic view of relationships, but if we pause that for a moment and look at the cold, hard facts, we can see that a Dating Coach can conceivably help you save a great deal of time and money.

Apart from the happiness a relationship can bring, it also brings shared bills! If you are two people sharing rent or mortgage, plus all other household bills, that might easily be saving you £5,000 to £10,000 per year. So the difference between taking one year to find a partner and taking three years to find a partner might be £10,000 to £20,000. If a relationship is the difference between needing to rent and being able to buy, it could be much more.

Then consider what cost a failed relationship is in years (and heartache – and lost youth opportunity). Read more…

Dating Coaching: How to Maximize Your Chances

  • Purifying Your Dating Desires (Being True to Yourself)
  • Showing Up and Presenting as Your Truest Self
  • Number Crunching the Dating Process
  • Developing Your Skills in Assessing Potential Relationship Partners

Score yourself out of 10.

 

Checking to see if the desires you have for dating and relationships are yours, and true to yourself, or are what you think your goals should be in order to please other people, e.g. parents. If you’re doing things to appease other people it won’t make you happy and will probably be impossible for you to sustain anyway.

How do you see yourself being in your dream relationship? How close to that vision are you currently living? If you’re looking for somebody who is engaged in the world because you see yourself like that also, but are spending lots of time slumped in front of the TV, maybe there is a difference between the way you see yourself, and the way you currently are.

As TV character, Ally McBeal observed, why wouldn’t she take the same approach to finding love as she does to business? Business people focus on crunching numbers, refinement of approach to get the results they want. How about we compare the approaches that you’re taking to finding dates,

 

 

Dating Coaching: Respecting Your Own Boundaries

 

It’s no exaggeration that a deeper wisdom when dating could save you twenty years.

 

 

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Dating Coaching Services

Dating Coaching Services can cover a range of skills including;

  • Addressing your blocks and areas where you don’t feel confident
  • Assessing potential partners; honing your intuition, observation and ‘tell-tale clues’
  • Increasing the odds by

 

Dating Coaching: How to Maximize Your Chances

How do you maximize your chances of success in dating and finding a happy and successful relationship?

In the field of Integral Philosophy, we have a concept called The Integral Success Principle, which states that "The more truths you include in your approach to any goal or desire, the greater your chances of success!"

Applying The Integral Success Principle to Dating Coaching I've identified FOUR KEY AREAS which are relevant to your dating success. If you consider these in turn you may recognise that you require help and particular focus on one or more of these areas;

Purifying Your Goals

Connections actually pre-exist in nature, prior to our thoughts, so relationships are easy once self-judgements are out of the way.

Read more about Connections

Showing Up

When you want for someone something different to what they want for themselves, you make yourself their enemy.

Read more about Harmonious Relationships

Number Crunching

Communication is only real, effective and authentic when it emanates from self-acceptance, from which it is also automatic.

Read more about Communication

Assessing Suitors

The world urgently needs a regaining of respect for our own boundaries, and each others.

Read more about Respect for Boundaries

In order to make use of a rather fluffy and abstract concept, Kissing Consciousness identifies three main types of love, and then identifies one of those three as the basis of what the world thinks of as 'The Power of Love'.

Coaching Video Testmonials

Karina Jurado Serrato

Texas, USA

James was really awesome. He helped me see places where I was not willing to go by myself, and he held the space. Thanks to him I feel like a sense of a world opened up that I never had before.

Jen Harrison

Manchester, UK

You can just feel the energy when you're working with James, on the coaching calls. The value for the sessions is just second to none.

Lizzy Williams

Melbourne, Australia

The space that James held for me was honouring. And I wonder what else is possible, what else can we create when we let ourselves choose for what's true for us?

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Nicola Price

Wellington, New Zealand

James has a very subtle style, and I have often found this style to be the most powerful. I look forward to experiencing the changes to come!

Tatiana Sevcuic

Copenhagen, Denmark

You manage to find a way and reach to the core of the situations and mildly ask to release the problem. Nice approach, Thank you!

Christine Kober

Graz, Austria

The quality I met in James was ACCEPTANCE. The result for me was that I was able to let myself just BE, and just be as I am in the moment.

Anna Astbury

Gold Coast, Australia

Life throws highballs at times that hit home a little harder than imaginable. I am appreciative & have gratitude for the presence & opportunity to work with James Blacker. Not only a great coach but a genuine open hearted empathic being. Thank you

Claire Floyd

London, UK

In being coached by James I dropped into deepening realisations of truth, stripping away layers of confusion and shoulds that were clouding my sense of being, allowing me to reach a clearer more expansive awareness.

Malin Sandberg

Lund, Sweden

Best coaching ever! You helped me in about an hour, with which I have not been able to help myself throughout my adult life.

Dating Coach: Your Questions Answered

There is no fixed amount to how much a dating coach costs. Prices may typically start at £100 an hour and could raise to any amount. A billionaire hiring the world’s most famous coach to help them prepare to find a relationship might pay six figures. Some dating coaches charge £50 an hour. Any dating coach charging less than that probably doesn’t value their own time. There is no definite correlation between cost and quality.

Dating coaches help people address the various factors which influence their ability to find a happy and successful relationship. This may include helping the person with their own confidence, their ability to assess potential partners, and help navigating the world of dating and match-making services.

Read more: Wikipedia

Yes, dating coaches are real. Their expertise in the field of interpersonal relationships and dating allows them to help their client in the activity of dating and finding a happy and successful relationship. This is no different to the way that a sports coach helps a sportsperson, or a music coach helps someone learn a musical instrument.

Yes, dating coaches are in demand. More people are taking their need or desire to find a good quality relationship match seriously, and so as a result they are turning to dating coaches and relationship coaches to help them improve their chances and their understanding of the subject.

Yes, a dating coach can help you find your soulmate. Indeed, the whole point of a dating coach is to help a person optimize their chances and abilities at finding a happy and successful relationship match. That said, no professional, responsible dating coach would guarantee that a person would definitely find a soulmate because;

  1. It is ultimately the client themselves who controls their own free will, not the coach
  2. And even then, nothing is certain or guaranteed

Yes, relationship coaches work and they can be very effective, indeed. To varying degrees, dating and relationship coaches have insights and expertise in the dating process and the dynamics of personal relationships which allows them to help a person be more likely to find a happy and successful relationship.

You might be well advised to ask your prospective dating coach exactly what skills they will be helping you to develop and exactly what assistance they are intending to provide. You might also ask them about their background: How much experience do they have? What training have they received? And you will also want to know how the process itself will work: Will they coach you via conversations had on a video call or in person face to face?

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