Whatever goal or challenge you’re facing, get my skilled support to give you the best chance at success
If there’s a specific issue or area of your life that you wish to transform, this coaching package may be for you. Get my dedicated support and I’ll facilitate your best possible outcome.
Who is this for? Anyone who has a positive goal you want to achieve in life or a negative issue you want to remove from your life.
…whether that relates to mind, body, relationships, emotions, money, career and prosperity, or spiritual meaning and purpose.
Who is it not for? Anyone who feels best able to achieve everything they want to achieve by themselves, as they are, with the wisdom and expertise they already have, without a second perspective.
What do you need? If you’re fluently English speaking and can access a video call that’s all you need.
Location: This service is available to you wherever you are in the world.
The Challenge You’re Facing
Please identify which one of these four applies to you
Mind: Perhaps you would like to be more confident, or have more peace of mind, or wish to be happier, or would like to be able to handle your emotions better.
Or it may be that you are at a spiritual crossroads, or even crisis. Maybe you wish to understand your true nature better, or wish to have a deeper, more meaningful life with greater spiritual fulfillment.
It’s not nice to be living life feeling – or knowing – that we’re not engaging our time here on Earth in the way that we sense is possible… that something is missing.
Body: Perhaps you would like to have more energy, or you have low health and a lifestyle you’d like to change, or you’d like to be slimmer, or feel younger. In any case, you can have a better relationship with your body.
Maybe life has been stressful for you, or even traumatic, and you’d like to have a more relaxed nervous system and be more comfortable in your own skin.
Good health is invisible, we take it for granted, but poor health and/or an unwanted weight issue is dominant. It weights heavy on the mind day to day. And a deeper underlying negative effect can be a crippling lack of self-esteem or even fear.
Relationships: Either you wish to find a relationship, but are having some challenge with that around dating, or you’re already in a relationship and it is struggling with some issue(s) or feeling that has occurred.
Without a truly happy and blissful love relationship life can feel lonely, with heartache even, and as if it’s missing something fundamental. Part of that is being sure that it is the right relationship for you – whether it’s a relationship you’re already in, or one you’re considering, or one you’re searching for.
And once you’ve found the right relationship, how to make it harmonious, or even blissful?
Money: For all the judgement, it’s better – and wiser – to have money than not to. It’s even more important now, as global economic system failure is stretching the minimum income required for a comfortable lifestyle.
And that success can’t come at the cost of our health, and you’ll likely prefer it involve some kind of job satisfaction, too.
Whilst being rich is not everything it certainly takes the sting out of being poor, and being successful with money can enable a remarkable and fulfilling quality of life.
Money is often about more than just money. It’s a reflection of a deeper reality within us. Are we feeling that we’re fulfilling our full potential in life? Are we giving the world our light and talent? Or is that desire for some form of creative, productive expression currently frustrated?
These are the four primary areas of life. To have all four functioning well allows life to flow nicely and gain a rhythm.
If 2, 3 or 4 of these apply to you, then unless one single issue is utterly dominant for you, then the Complete Life package is most suitable as we can address all of them.
I Can Relate to These Feelings and Challenges
Finding Solutions
Image: Blarney Castle in Ireland. Kissing the Blarney Stone, a tradition that’s been around for several centuries, is said to give a person the gift of eloquence and persuasiveness.
‘A Shy Young Man’: Struggling with Mind, Body, Relationships and Prosperity
Like many people, my upbringing left me unhappy, unsure of where to go and what to do, without confidence, in a body I was at odds with, shy, less than good at talking to the opposite sex (that’s putting it mildly) and a million miles from my right vocation that could provide any kind of financial freedom.
What’s more, looking for solutions in the self-help/personal development world brought up a mixed bag of philosophies and speakers which lacked the wisdom and flexibility to be helpful enough.
At age twenty-one, as a shy young man, I visited Blarney Castle in Ireland and kissed the famous Blarney Stone – an act said to give all who do the ‘gift of the gab’. I felt sure I would become confident at speaking – and simply being me as I saw me – but not because I believed in a magical thinking myth (likely designed for tourists), but I knew deep down I should be capable of such things, and I was determined to find the solutions and do all the work necessary to reclaim my true self.
Having had anxiety attacks since the age of eleven and having taken my exams in a room on my own aged sixteen as a result, I completed my first radio interview in 2013 at a radio station in Slough, UK with 80,000 people listening in. That was on the pretty deep topic of ‘What is Wisdom?’
You can see the transformation from panic attack-ridden adult to confident international speaker in the video below.
I completed training in Conscious Relating, to the point that I then taught it myself in seminars.
I learned ‘Body Wisdom’ from David Heard, who is a trainer of elite athletes such as England Cricket Captain, Andy Strauss, and Founder of the National Rehabilitation Centre for the Paralysed.
I interviewed the country’s top sleep expert, Dr Neil Stanley, the former Chair of the British Sleep Society. I interviewed one of Madonna’s nutritionists, Dr Laurent Bannock.
I learned Integral Philosophy from Ken Wilber. And I learned from decades of self-employment, marketing expertise and sales, and time as an eCommerce Project Manager.
Throughout all that time I was constantly observing myself, reading and learning about my mind and my true nature.
The Kissing Consciousness Logo above actually represents these four elements of mind (green element), body (blue), relationships (red) and prosperity (gold).
The Kissing Consciousness Approach
I later devised Kissing Consciousness, and wrote the Handbook for the movement by the same name to give people all the insights of its wisdom as best as a book can.
It is from this perspective that I can see that the challenges that people face can mostly be resolved – and I can usually see the most effective way to do that.
At the same time, I’m responsible. I can’t promise you any love interest will choose you (or choose to keep you), and this isn’t a miracle cure for illnesses, but beyond things like that there is a very simple dynamic as to whether we allow ourselves to be who we are in each aspect (or whether we self-sabotage), and then after that it’s a case of a few basic skills and insights that bring about the best of what’s possible for you.
Your Priority
- Get dedicated, high-quality focus on your priority
- Share and explore in a safe space of total acceptance
- Gain mental skills and insights that will stay with you for life
The Benefits to You and Your Priority Goal or Challenge
If something is affecting your quality of life, it may be sensible to talk about it.
…and perhaps do something about it.
There are two levels of benefit to having coaching with me.
Even before we get to the talents of a life coach, the very dynamic of somebody else helping you is likely because they’re looking at your situation objectively from the outside; you’re looking at it subjectively from the inside.
So the first level of benefits is around those which typically come from getting life coaching or any kind of second party assistance generally;
- FOCUS: Getting a dedicated time and space to focus solely on the matter at hand.
- SAFELY EXPLORE: A chance to explore often personal issues safe in the knowledge that you won’t be judged.
- OBJECTIVITY: Having someone take an objective view on a situation that you will likely see subjectively.
- GREATER PERSPECTIVES: The chances are a coach will also see perspectives you may have missed.
- ACCOUNTABILITY: Having a clearly defined focus or aim and measurement of progress towards it.
- ENCOURAGEMENT: Positive reflection that you can fulfill your full potential.
…and the second level of benefits relates to the specific qualities I can bring to the matter.
- WISDOM: I literally wrote the course called Wisdom fifteen years ago, and will use and apply that understanding when helping you.
- EXPERTISE: You’ll get the benefit of my specific expertise(s) as outlined above.
- INTEGRAL PERSPECTIVE: As an Integral Philosopher qualified in Spiral Dynamics – known as a ‘Worldview of Worldviews’ – your worldview isn’t going to challenge mine.
- DEEP COMPASSION: Depth brings an approach which typically serves a more fulfilling outcome.
- EMPATHY: By imagining myself in your shoes I can get a sense of any blind spots you may have where false or limiting beliefs are getting in the way.
- TEAMWORK: We’ll work as a team of two to get the best we can for you that’s possible given the situation.
If you think you might like to give it a go, please schedule a free, no obligation Discovery Call below and we can discuss the possibility.
